so before i start telling this story, let me paint a picture for you:
2 or odd years ago when dale and i were in the process of breaking up for the 2nd time, we were in the backseat of his parents' car arguing while they were in the store, i ended up making him cry, when his parents came back his mom noticed that he was crying, when she asked him what was wrong he said nothing and she gave me a dirty ass look because she knew i made him cry
even a few months before that she kept telling him that i was hiding things from him and that i'm no good for him.
since then she's been holding a grudge against me
this past saturday i went to disneyland with dale, teresa and her little brother anthony
on the way up, we were maybe 20 minutes away when i asked dale
"so who are we meeting up there?"
he responded by saying "mr.murakoto"
i was like "who the fuck is that?"
he explained "a disney executive, my mom called him and asked if i could get 3 tickets to get in for free"
confused i replied "but there's 4 of us, why did she only ask him for 3?"
he looked over at me and said "you know why"
enraged i said "your mom still doesn't like me? wow, what a cunt"
teresa told me "that's pretty harsh of you to say"
and i told her "well she is one, to me at least"
dale said to me "i don't appreciate you talking about my mother like that"
so i told him "well, i don't appreciate your mother holding a grudge against me for something that occurred over 2 years ago, she's a grown woman over twice my age and she needs to start acting like an adult and grow the fuck up"
we just let it go after that, or so i thought. i still ended up getting in for free.
way later on during the day while we were waiting in line for the finding nemo ride, it was maybe about 4 or 5 o' clock, i started watching juno on my ipod because no one was talking. so when i paused it a few minutes later to watch a certain part again i hear dale running his mouth about me, talking all this mad shit about how i'm just a hole in his pocket, etc.
again, i was enraged, but i let it go, it's not healthy for someone to be so stressed out and angry, although it did ruin the rest of the day for me. so for the rest of the day i kept to myself, i was quiet and only spoke when i was spoken to.
when he dropped me off at home i said thank you and goodbye but wasn't even acknowledged by dale nor teresa, i tried again, nothing. fine, i slammed the door and headed inside of my house where i went on myspace and posted an angry bulletin.
here's the thing, he's too much of a little bitch to say things to my face apparently, dale has had it easy this entire time, i could easily beat his ass and tear his face open, i would decimate him if i attacked him. i haven't done so because he's my best friend, oh i'm sorry, my mistake he's my "best friend."
i've stood up for him through thick and thin to anyone who has ever badmouthed him, including my friends, family and sometimes even strangers. he doesn't stand up for me apparently, not even to his mother whom i've just left alone. hell, i even forgot that she disliked me. no matter, my soul is at peace while her's is filled with hatred, stress and anger.
after all that my family and i have done for him, he still goes and disrespects me. his mother never once took into consideration that we took her son under our wings and let him live in our home, sleep in one of our beds, use our electricity, water, eat our food, etc. never once did we consider him a burden, moving out was completely his choice, we were trying to help him get on his feet and still his mother holds a silly little grudge against me, high school must have been 27 years ago for her and 3 years ago for me. i don't do drama, however i will speak my mind and say what i think about her. it's time to grow up and act like adults which we both are. i'm sure the reason she hates me so much is because she hates herself and uses me as a vent.
a hole in his pocket? well, i didn't consider him a burden when he was living here in my house for a few months for FREE when he had no job and no money. before he was bankin' the big bills with the christopher weil company.
to say the least, i'm disgusted. i'm sickened by this childish act. his arrogance astounds me.
regardless, i'm putting all of this behind me and told him not to contact me until he is ready to apologize because clearly there is nothing i need to apologize for.
like i stated in my myspace bulletin, i'm not asking for someone to tell me that i was right or wrong, the point that i'm trying to get across is that my best friend has turned into my "best friend" a fake backstabber who accuses me of not appreciating what he does for me when it is clearly he who lacks the appreciation of all that my family and i have ever done for him.
i told my mom the same story and she's a bit angry with him as well. she did tell me that it wasn't right for me to call his mom a cunt but she also said that it's not right for her to be judging me so harshly either considering the fact that she's an adult and that we provided a home for her son while he was facing tough times.
i want to know how one person can have so many faces. it's disgusting.